HOLY
MATRIMONY
Husbands Love Your Wives Like Christ Also Loved The Church
Wish A Blessed Marriage?
God created marriage as a loyal partnership between one man and one woman. God designed marriage and the family to be the place where intimate intimacy on earth would occur.
"So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth." Genesis 1:27-28 NKJV
Holy Matrimony With Solemnisation
The Holy Matrimony Service at Bethany Church Singapore is a sacred covenant before God, where a man and woman commit themselves to a lifelong union founded on love, faith, and mutual devotion. The church is committed to guiding couples through a meaningful journey of spiritual preparation, biblical understanding, and marriage readiness before the wedding day.
1. Marriage Preparation ∓ Application
Couples who desire to be married at Bethany Church Singapore are encouraged to begin the process several months before their intended wedding date. An initial meeting with church leaders or pastoral staff will be arranged to discuss eligibility, wedding plans, and the church's requirements for Holy Matrimony. During this stage, couples submit the necessary application forms and supporting documents.
2. Pre-Marital Counselling Classes
As part of the church's commitment to building strong Christian marriages, couples are required to attend pre-marital counselling sessions. These classes provide biblical teachings and practical guidance on important aspects of married life, including:
- God's purpose and design for marriage
- Communication and conflict resolution
- Financial stewardship
- Family relationships and expectations
- Emotional and spiritual intimacy
- Roles and responsibilities within marriage
- Building a Christ-centred home
3. Holy Matrimony & Solemnization Service
Upon successful completion of the counselling programme, couples work closely with the church and wedding coordinator to plan the Holy Matrimony Service. This includes selecting Scripture readings, worship songs, vows, and other elements of the ceremony. A wedding rehearsal is typically conducted before the wedding day to ensure that all participants are familiar with the order of service and ceremonial proceedings. The Holy Matrimony Service is conducted in the presence of God, family, friends, and the church community. The ceremony reflects the biblical understanding of marriage as a holy covenant, symbolizing Christ's love for His Church and the couple's commitment to honour God in their life together. Holy Matrimony Registration
4. Ongoing Marriage Support
Marriage is not only a wedding day event but a lifelong journey. Bethany Church Singapore encourages newly married couples to remain actively involved in church life, fellowship groups, and marriage enrichment programmes. Through continued spiritual growth, community support, and discipleship, couples are equipped to build a strong, Christ-centred marriage that glorifies God and blesses future generations.
"Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." — Mark 10:9